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Head to head · checked October 2026

CrushOn.AI vs Secret Desires

Secret Desires scores 6.7 and CrushOn.AI 6.5. Secret Desires is the stronger choice for a made-to-order partner and live voice calls, while CrushOn.AI makes more sense for text roleplay with a choice of language models.

Score by scoreSecret Desires is ahead on 2 of 6 scores, CrushOn.AI on 1.

CrushOn.AI#15 of 316.5/10

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Secret Desires#13 of 316.7/10

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Score by score

Our six scores out of 10, the same for every platform. The longer bar is ahead.

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7Chat quality7
8Characters8
7Features8
6Value7
5Privacy4
6Ease of use6

CrushOn.AI and Secret Desires side by side

A ✓ shows which platform wins each row, whether through a higher score, a bigger free allowance, a lower price or a feature the other one is missing. Prices checked 27 September 2026.

FeatureCrushOn.AISecret Desires
Overall score6.5/10 · #15 of 31✓6.7/10 · #13 of 31
Free plan✓Free: unlimited basicFree: 30 msgs/day
Paid from✓$4.91/mo billed yearly ($5.99 month to month)$6.67/mo billed yearly ($7.99 month to month)
NSFW contentExplicit chat allowed, no filterExplicit chat allowed, no filter
VoiceMessagesMessages and calls
ImagesNot confirmed✓Yes
VideoNot confirmed✓Yes
Apps✓AndroidNo
Chat without sign-upNot confirmedNot confirmed
Create charactersYesYes
Payment methodscredit card, debit card, other methods listed under 'Other Payments' at checkout—

“Paid from” is the cheapest monthly cost. When that price depends on yearly or quarterly billing, the table says so and adds the month-to-month price in brackets.

Tested hands-on

Results from opening a brand-new free account on each platform and chatting in an ordinary browser.

FeatureCrushOn.AISecret Desires
Free messages✓94+ messages, no limit seen30 messages a day
Explicit chat while freeYesYes
Reply time12.6 s✓3.0 s
MemoryForgot✓Remembered after 13 messages
Free pictures1✓2
Sign-upn/a3 min
Tested27 Sep 202626 Sep 2026

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Which one is for you

Both are good at different things. Here is who each one suits.

Pick CrushOn.AI for…

Text roleplay with a choice of language models. Ahead of Secret Desires on privacy.

  • Unlimited use of the free models on every plan, and the free tier adds 100 monthly credits for Pro models
  • A big, well-tagged library of characters made by users, with group chat on paid plans
  • Even free accounts get voice replies and custom voices

The catch: Pricing is complicated, with six tiers, monthly credits, a separate Pro models package and two virtual currencies

Pick Secret Desires for…

A made-to-order partner and live voice calls. Ahead of CrushOn.AI on features and value.

  • Cheap way in: Pro is $7.99 a month or $79.99 a year
  • Live voice calls, voice notes and, from Ultra upward, voice cloning
  • The official FAQ promises a discreet billing descriptor (SDAI)

The catch: In November 2025, 404 Media reported that close to two million user images and videos, explicit face-swaps of real women among them, were sitting in cloud storage anyone could reach

Questions and answers

CrushOn.AI vs Secret Desires, answered from our scores and prices.

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Which is better, CrushOn.AI or Secret Desires?

Secret Desires scores 6.7 and CrushOn.AI 6.5. Secret Desires is the stronger choice for a made-to-order partner and live voice calls, while CrushOn.AI makes more sense for text roleplay with a choice of language models. CrushOn.AI has the higher mark for privacy. Secret Desires has the higher mark for features and value.

Which is cheaper, CrushOn.AI or Secret Desires?

CrushOn.AI costs less to start: its plans begin at $4.91/mo billed yearly ($5.99 month to month), compared with $6.67/mo billed yearly ($7.99 month to month) on Secret Desires.

Which has a better free tier, CrushOn.AI or Secret Desires?

CrushOn.AI gives away more without payment (unlimited basic), while Secret Desires offers 30 msgs/day. Free models can be used without limit, plus 100 message credits a month for Pro models (no Ultra access), 8K memory, 20 inspiration replies a day, shared servers that can slow down at busy times, voice replies and one custom voice slot. Group chat is not included, and history is wiped after 7 days without activity. When we tested on 27 September 2026, fresh chats opened on Carina 8K at 2 credits per message, so all 100 credits were spent after 50 messages with no prompt; the chat then showed "You are out of messages" and switched to the slower Free Carina model, which handled 44 further messages without stopping. Trial: we found no trial for paid tiers. The free tier does not expire.

Do CrushOn.AI and Secret Desires allow explicit content?

Yes. Both permit fully explicit conversations between adults, and neither runs a content filter on them.

Do CrushOn.AI and Secret Desires have voice and images?

CrushOn.AI offers voice (messages), pictures (not confirmed) and video (not confirmed). Secret Desires offers voice (messages and calls), pictures and video.

Verdict: Secret Desires wins

Secret Desires scores 6.7 and CrushOn.AI 6.5. Secret Desires is the stronger choice for a made-to-order partner and live voice calls, while CrushOn.AI makes more sense for text roleplay with a choice of language models.

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